Hello guys, I just want to consult something. I have liked my cousin who is a college, whi...

Your life is not a yaoi manga, just saying.

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Oops, sorry for the intrusion. Well, i think you can't ignoring him forever cause he's your family. I know it's hard but if you don't want to be hurt, you must not have high hope that he'll loves you back, so i think you must erase little by little your love for him and approach to him normally like you always do before. He must be wondering why you avoid him. Fighting! (●'◡'●)ﾉ

I think that you should try confessing? you were close before so he might accept the fact that you are gay but i dont men that he is gay too and he will go out with you though, bu then,nothing will change

if you dont do anything

When he approaches you, isn't it a normal thing for him with no special meaning behind it, given that you guys were supa close before and he's tryin to reconnect that bond again?
'Cause if so, then don't delude yerself into false hope as ..well..that's detrimental.
Also, if voicing your feelings for him makes you at ease enough to move forwards, then do so, otherwise won't you be left with regrets at the missed opportunity for your love confession?
Well those are my two cents.
Hope it helped.


P.S. we can make a manga outta this.

Why life can't be the one like a manga (〜￣△￣)〜

You won't be able to avoid him forever. There's probably a minimal chance of actually being able to date him. I would suggest you continue distancing yourself (but not full on ignoring him, just something like a fading out) and maybe try dating other people if you're ready for it. When you feel prepared you could confess, but not for the sake of dating him. By confessing you'll be able to let go of your feelings and move on. Good luck~

eh uhmn not trying to discourage you but I think it's better to set you expectations low as they say Expectation hurts and as you metion he is an hetero so there is a great possibility that he only sees you as a family relative. As for him approaching you I think you need to take more time on figuring whether his intentions is just like a normal relative or does he sees you in a romantic way because the line between lovers and relative is pretty thin... you can be touchy feely all you want with you relatives even if you guys didn't see each other for ages cause your BLOOD RELATED (may vary depending on how you guys are raised) and as you mention you guys used to be close so maybe he assumed that you are just in your rebellious phase when you distanced yourself and it's pretty common that relatives distance each other since as we grow up we develop the sense of privacy, personal space and you meet other people (urghh its a NORM).
If possible it's better if you maintain a neutral position... I mean you don't want to break everything you guys build right and btw does he know you like uhmn Men? Or is he special cause if he does know or you were already out of the closet you can ask him leading questions then if it backfired you can casually dismiss it as a joke.
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Either way I'm rotting for you... I hope the odds will be in your favor

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He doesn't hold any special meaning. You were closed with him, and I assume were still being in touch for a year before you ignore him. You said that he has a girlfriend, which mean he does engage in a straight relationship.

Maybe he wants to recover the relationship he had with you. You ignored him because you have realized your feelings towards him. However, he wouldn't know why you would suddenly become distant after being close all these years.

Unless his approaches have been relating to gay relationship or showing love interest towards you, then it's better you don't hold up any expectation solely from his recent approaches.

Why the fuck is everyone ignoring the fact that it is his COUSIN??? This is incestuous. How disgusting can yall get. Really.

Matt if i were you i would seriously snap the hell out and smack my face. I mean seriously, HE IS YOUR FUCKING COUSIN. YOU GUYS ARE RELATED BY BLOOD.

Oh I didn't say it clear. We are cousins but not blood related. He is adopted

Hotdamn. Real life BL and INCEST?? COUNT ME IN.

But I get the feeling that he's trying to flirt with me or something? I dont really know what to think or is it just my imagination? Anyway Thank you guys for the Support and advices. As for those who despise me cause I fell inlove with my cousin, I wont say anything but I believe loving someone is free. Even when we become blood related, I'm happy that I fell inlove :) Though it's one-sided hahaha Well thank you very much guys

Maybe it's just a bromance?

Thank god. Now go for it. Dont worry about his gf. CONFESS. Thats right man up and CONFESS. If he rejects or gets disgusted, say it was only a dare/joke.

Whatever ur choice will be and whatever result comes after, stay strong!! (๑•ㅂ•)و✧ (i cant give u any advices, bcs in the end its all up to u, good luck either way!!)

Just an anon passing btw

Give him hints that you are gay and desperately looking for a bf even if it is lying. Maybe it will work idk

Just curious. How is this gf like? Pls rate her