I really don’t find the seme to be as bad as people make him seem, like for sure he’s a playboy but other than that idk I feel like theres really nothing wrong with wanting to set boundaries and making it clear that you’re only wanting to fool around. But I also don’t blame the uke for being disappointed because it was said bluntly and that’s not exactly a great thing to hear from someone you like. Uke is better off going for the 2nd lead though.
I really don’t find the seme to be as bad as people make him seem, like for sure he’s a playboy but other than that idk I feel like theres really nothing wrong with wanting to set boundaries and making it clear that you’re only wanting to fool around. But I also don’t blame the uke for being disappointed because it was said bluntly and that’s not exactly a great thing to hear from someone you like. Uke is better off going for the 2nd lead though.