When I was a teenager I hung out in a gay club with the drag queens and they'd always call their ass their pussy. They'd say things like "bitch my pussies better then yours" or "my pussy is tighter then any sloppy cunt." I realized it's pretty common among some gay dudes to call their assholes pussies. Although I hate the word pussy no matter how it's used. My ex used to like me to tslk dirty but I couldn't say pussy without feeling ridiculous. Problem is that there aren't a lot of names for vagina that didn't sound ridiculous. This deepened my knowledge that guys are weird. I've wished on more then one occasion that I was gay. Which is ironic bc as a kid being raised by a gay mom I was terrified of being gay bc of the religious bigots who tormented me by telling me my mom was going to burn in hell if she didn't repent her wicked ways. Fortunately for me I finally realized they were full of shit. But back to the point I think pussy is such a gross word. I think someone needs to invent a word that doesn't sound so stupid but doesn't also sound so scientific like vagina or vulva.
Same, I have a few drag queen friends, and sometimes heard them said that too. It's really not a word that would turn me on, it's more of a very lame dirty talk or an insult (depending how it's used) for me.
Oh hai I'm gay too woah, but yeah pussy makes me cringe in most instances. I use it more of an insult than something that's sexual though because it doesn't sound alluring. Neither does cunt though rip. There's no good words; you're right. ;-;
So maybe we need to make up a new word. Perhaps one that might refer more to function, the part one has sex with, than specific organ, making it even gender neutral. To just toss a totally not serious suggestion out there as an example, sexerry (not the best!) but it would cover everything, butts, vaginas and dicks.
It's a tough one. Although ever since I heard the story about this midwives little girl who misheard vagina and called it her "front China" I've kind of always said that when referring to my goods. Not in a sexual way of course and nobody knows what the fuck I'm talking about but I find it amusing. Pussy should be banned. It's just so lame. The double ss sound makes it sound like u have a lisp and it just irks me. I def agree a new word should be invented.
All going well until they started using the word "pussy", turned me off