* also sorry for my english
Agreed. Yeah, it's frustrating how Gyeom thinks and acts, but I think it's pretty normal for someone who has always faced severe verbal abuse and repeated abandonment. I was never abused like Gyeom was, but my mom has always made me feel worthless (she's an undiagnosed case of borderline pd), so I spiral into negative thought processes like that too. Your mom was right. It's hard to stop thinking irrationally when, for most of your life, your irrational thoughts always came true.
THANK YOU. i could give u a 100 thumbs up if i could. the lot who comments that are annoyed to mingyum is pissing me off damn. like um did yall forgot what he went through? idk if im just an understanding person but?? i wont expect him to be okay with all thats happened to his life
i feel for gyeom because if you were in his shoes you would think the way he does too.
imagine :
- having your father hate your guts since young but use you for your blood.
- having your step mother hate your guts as well
- having your real mother dead
- having a sister that get's whatever she wants and watch her get the affection from your father that you wished for
- having get kicked out of your home because no one wants you there.
- having your father come to you again but only for your blood. you finally stand up for yourself and you see where that got you? completely disowned and cut off.
- having working to support yourself and stress out.
- never feeling needed or wanted
- feeling used
and that's not even all of it you still have having your heart completely broken by someone who only used you to replace someone else.
he was lead to fucking suicide. his life has been shitty, okay.
so to the lot of you that is mad about gyeom's way of thinking. you have to realize what he was faced with in his life to even think that way.
he's going to feel insecure and have negative thoughts. nothing has really gone well in his life and no one has really loved him(until chun)
my mom once told me that 'someone who has been treated badly for most of there life will not know how to act when someone comes along and decides to treat them the right way'.
he has improved a bit from his previous self(going out, joining social activities, etc) but isn't done growing. so chill the fuck out.