I don't think that the divorce is your fault.
I mean something like this shouldn't be decided so fast.
Maybe you parents, or mom thought about it some time ago.
ask your mom thats the most accurate answer instead of overthinking
Yeah your mom might've been thinking about this for a while. Of course I would ask her.
Both of them are adult and they make their own decisions.
You could influence people with ideas, but people don't go for divorce just because you heard of it. She must have been thinking of it for a long time, or something that made her to decide for divorce. Talk with her, and clear the misunderstanding. I don't think you should blame yourself. This divorce isn't happening because you suggest it.
(If they blame you, no it is still not your fault. What causes the divorce? No, still not because you suggest it.)
Don't blame yourself.. They're getting divorce because your dad's cheating, not because of you.
Whatever, something painful like that is not something to joke about as no matter it's true or not, it still hurts.
I'm a product off a divorce it's not you or your siblings fault.
It a husband and wife issue this is not the first fight they had it was the last straw.
Kokoro ga sakebitagatterunda (anime movie). Just like the girl mc, her parent get divorce and she blame herself. but its not her fault. And Its not your fault. Dont blame yourself please.
And if you need support going through it,ether to talk and vent or ask advice sometimes it's easier to talk to someone that not involved in the situation we can be your Terapi,please don't hesitate to post it here.
Thanks you all. I will gather the courage and talk to her about it. Thanks for being here for me.
Sorry, I know this isn't really the place to vent out but I need to. So, yesterday my mom met up with my dad's friend and when they were talking, mom realized that dad lied to her about where he was a couple of days ago. Their stories didn't match. I joked around about him cheating on her and them getting a divorce....and then the next day mom says they are getting a divorce. I can't help thinking its my fault because I am the one who put it in her mind in the first place but I'm too scared to ask if I am right. I just...wanna cry but my brother just stormed out of the house and my sister is crying....Is it really my fault?