full grown adult and lets her parents manipulate her like that
Its probably an asian thing. Alot have overprotective parents that double as conservatives and shame especially their daughters for engaging in behaviors they deem inappropriate. Theyd probably raised her to become the submissive person that she is
girl- im asian parents r definitely protective but this is straight up abuse and helicopter parenting. it doesnt reach this point, especially when ur nearing ur 30s and i am fully aware this is all just plot cus its ridiculous af
The controlling part is spot on. My mom didnt want me to move out when I wanted to. And when I did she tasked my younger brothers to keep an eye on me. Pretty annoying.
But then again, I'm her only daughter. So, I kinda get where she's coming from. But still.
Yeah, but it is abuse and helicopter parenting. I didn't say its wasn't. I wasn't trying to normalize it, so I apologize if it came across that way but oddly enough it's pretty common within asians and idc if you are asian because I am also one without helicopter parents but know enough peers who do so its not exactly a rarity. When you grow accustomed to these parents and their emphasis in filiality its quite natural to be submissive and not be able to stray from them.
You don't get to shame adults who still go through the abuse of their parents because they'd been raised that way and weren't given support to get out. When your parents are your only family and they'd isolate you from others (as abusers do) it's never the victims fault regardless if they're a child or an adult. And she also was never given the opportunity to realize these things as she has no other close personal relationships aside from her ex bf, which was likely also cause of her parents.
I dont even want to move out!! Living expenses is cheaper and there's always cooked full meal dinner. Also when im sick someone is always there to check on me !! Unless I'm married, I don't want to move out. Cost of living is extremely high. I like having extra funds and a savings!! ╮(￣▽￣)╭
Old enough to leave your parents house