Idk who you were talking to for each point, it's kinda confusing. Anyway, I also think that garbage was a bit too much, we all did a good job on making her understand that, she also admits that she knows it's a bit over the top. We all also understand that you like min gyum or empathize with him, what nobody (at least not me) blames you for. We just don't agree and tried to make you understand why we don't, it doesn't mean that we hate him (he's not a bad character after all) You're entitled to your opinion like everybody else, so you can defend him all you want as much as we can disagree with it all we want too. It doesn't mean that one of our pov is better than the other. We all feel what we feel, and there's nothing wrong with the fact that they might be opposite to the other.
Min Gyum it's really a insecure boy. I understand him. I've been on this situation before. He really believes, no matter how Kim Chun Sam it's good to him that he will someday leave him. This is a serious issue. So stop the hate pls