Thank you!! And when folks point out that thinking is harmful we get called out for liking “victim” stories.. it’s wild..
Plus the story is just getting into high gear I always savor my patience and understanding through that method lol. Plus it’s probably all westerners (like me) who comment things of that nature like get your “girl boss,” repackaged essentialism out of here lol

calling her “a victim” like it’s an insult is wild be so serious. she’s been dragged her whole life, shunned by her own family, almost died, and literally walks with a limp permanently because of it. of course she’s insecure and traumatised. and yeah she’s gonna project some of that onto the ml, like hello she’s never had anyone actually love or care for her romantically like that before you don’t just magically know how to act in a healthy relationship when all you’ve ever known is pain. yall just don’t have empathy and it’s showing. not everyone irl is “strong and independent” 24/7... we all have insecurities, bffr.