Byul is a teenager. Some teenagers go to through a rebellious phase. He learned at a young age that his mom didn't want him (initially) - and he did not learn it through direct communication from his parents, nope he overheard them in conversation with each other and their friend. That has stayed with him till now....this is in no way to minimize Hyesung's trauma because he went through a great deal. Maybe Byul's connection with his grandmother is him trying to better understand why his mom did what he did and what he felt when he (Hyesung) got pregnant and gave birth to him...the fact that y'all are on here wishing they had aborted Byul is astonishing. As if some us didn't go through some fucked up shit and we're still working through even as adults. This is why communication is important. But guess what people don't always communicate until after the fact because they're always of the belief that they're protecting the ones they love from hurt...this fallout is what may actually trigger those conversations - Hyesungs resentment towards his mom, yes Byul knows about it but he doesn't fully understand the depth of it, he's still a child and children can sometimesbe selfish (let's not forget last time Hye's mom made an appearance he became depressed and pushed everyone away, including s baby Byul. Then there's Byul's resentment towards both of his parents...everything is unraveling in the way it sometimes would in real life, MESSY and that's ok but damn yo...to wish he wasn't born THEN WHAT THE FUCK WOULD BE THE STORY??? Were y'all expecting fluff without conflict? After everything we done been through with these folks. Smh!
As for Dojin...sigh. He's got some explaining to do. And I'll be right here, along for the ride.
Byul is a teenager. Some teenagers go to through a rebellious phase. He learned at a young age that his mom didn't want him (initially) - and he did not learn it through direct communication from his parents, nope he overheard them in conversation with each other and their friend. That has stayed with him till now....this is in no way to minimize Hyesung's trauma because he went through a great deal. Maybe Byul's connection with his grandmother is him trying to better understand why his mom did what he did and what he felt when he (Hyesung) got pregnant and gave birth to him...the fact that y'all are on here wishing they had aborted Byul is astonishing. As if some us didn't go through some fucked up shit and we're still working through even as adults. This is why communication is important. But guess what people don't always communicate until after the fact because they're always of the belief that they're protecting the ones they love from hurt...this fallout is what may actually trigger those conversations - Hyesungs resentment towards his mom, yes Byul knows about it but he doesn't fully understand the depth of it, he's still a child and children can sometimesbe selfish (let's not forget last time Hye's mom made an appearance he became depressed and pushed everyone away, including s baby Byul. Then there's Byul's resentment towards both of his parents...everything is unraveling in the way it sometimes would in real life, MESSY and that's ok but damn yo...to wish he wasn't born THEN WHAT THE FUCK WOULD BE THE STORY??? Were y'all expecting fluff without conflict? After everything we done been through with these folks. Smh!
As for Dojin...sigh. He's got some explaining to do. And I'll be right here, along for the ride.