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That’s such a fucked up and insensitive thing to say. He was a neglected child who was domestically abused by his dad from a young age and groomed by two pedos. Do u really expect someone who went through all that to grow up emotionally mature and stable? This sounds like the typical victim blaming. How can u not feel bad for someone who was sexually assaulted? No matter how reckless he might’ve been, he didn’t deserve any of that, the blame lies entirely with the perpetrators, not him. And him relying on the mc is a totally different story and totally understandable on his part.Some of u seriously need to work on ur media literacy.

I’m not a fan of this saying but it’s true in this story that the abused becomes the abuser. Is it hard to feel sorry when he is hurting the mc? Yes! But what happened to him is still horrible and something to take into consideration of why he is acting this way. That’s just my opinion though lol

THANK YOU!!! My god nobody gets it

But dragging top when he thought he was his last option no never .

But dragging top when he thought he was his last option no never . He will never be able to change himself if he doesn't want. Why justify the thing that is bad

Thank you for being the voice of reason

Yes he was abused and neglected...i don't expect him to be so mature....I am NOT VICTIM BLAMING TOO...my point is he want to change but why doesn't he get help...like just because of willfullness to stand up on your own you shouldn't hurt others ..if he can do it all alone why is he dragging mc into it...with the male nurse ...yeah I understood he was a high schooler ....I felt really sorry for him ... with the friend's brother too...I felt really bad even though he wanted to move he met that shit....I thought he finally know how abusive he was so he broke up . .but what he went to his home alone even though he knows how twisted he his....it's just really a dumb move...he could have asked mc to come with him or contacted anyone....and I'm saying this incase u get it wrong again...I'm not saying he went there because he want to be abused again...I'm saying he should have taken some measures to protect himself...or he shouldn't have gone there at all....how much is he going to get hurt?!!! And hurt mc..who has been kept in the dark till now?!

That's what I'm saying too....why do they think I'm VICTIM BLAMING...I'm just saying he should atleast know how to protect himself

And YOU don't have to tell me to work on my media literacy....I'm expressing MY THOUGHTS...about the story....given the words u have typed...i think YOU SHOULD WORK ON THAT!

"I don't why but I don't feel "sorry" for jiho....maybe I'm bad but I just feel it's all the results of his reckless behaviour"this is what u said boo how's that not victim blaming


"if you are mature enough to think so much about ruining others life atleast try to make yours better ..by going to therapy or something at first" and that's why i Said you can't expect him to be mature after going through sm.


And i have a simple answer to all of ur "why" it's bc he's a traumatized person and self destructive that's why he don't know how to handle a proper relationship. In short he ain't mature he's js mentally unstable i am not excusing what he did to yujun but it's a very expected behaviour from someone like him.

Ummmm it's true tho u rlly do lack media literacy and i didn't mean it in a bad way u don't have to get so defensive over it ://

So ...you are saying he can manipulate anyone ...anytime ...and that's to be expected?! I'm saying I don't feel sorry for the last incident...because he have to know how to protect himself...and about being mature....this was also about being able to protect himself...like how he did with that school nurse

I'm not getting defensive... I'm saying I am expressing my thoughts...what do you mean by lacking media literacy?!! U can't even get what I'm saying

By reckless behaviour....if he knows what kind of person he was already .. why did he went alone.. it's not like u can reason with that friends brother given his past behaviour

As for therapy....he is sane enough to know what he wants when he want to be with mc ..why not make use of it for himself?! He is hurting himself by doing everything on his own

Looks like you really got them where it hurts