I do think it's possible for a biological female raised as a male to yearn for stereotypically "femenine" things just like it happens for biological males who yearn to wearn a dress. That being said yes I agree that the author's understanding is likely shallow. I don't think she is able to accurately present this as anything other than "well shes a girl so her dream is to wear cute dresses"
nvm reread drop this shit faster than the flague ew why is he so closse to her the wholee time seems likee a. grownn ass adult lusting after a. 16yr old ew ew n the way he just put the lip gloss on her n why r tthe always so obsessed with heigt diff like theres pleenty of stories when the fmc is tall

damn like why do most of the mangaka think of she was hiding her real gender and have to live as prince her deepest wish is wear a pretty dress? am i wrong in think if u were raised to be a guy, then at some point ur brain starts to belive it?
also with the whole mls turning them into "girls" cuz they want to see it regardless of mcs intentions and manipulation too