? I don't know what you mean !! ?? To me that couple are both finding something they can't find easily elsewhere. And they are * emotionnally attracted to each other * so that means they relate to each others at the spiritual level, and they feel a special type of attraction to each other (intelectual and emotionnal, and romantic) and they are connected at the heart level, and they are both transparent and emotionnally intelligent so i believe they can make things work even though they might encounter some challenges, just as any couple would ?? Plus they have common ground and common friends and interests,
they have * the spark * and a good start, so !
Personnally i am heterosexual but still had to break up with my past boyfriends due to mismatch in our plans for the future AND a mismatch in our sexual drive, so it's for ALL couples that '' it '' can be a cause of issues. The problem in my past relationship was unexpected for me : because me and my partner had good *sexual chemistry * i thought we were good but the thing is there is no guarantees that this type of '' glue '' between people does last !! I even think it is dangerous to rely solely on that type of chemistry , because when the libido or the drive to be '' sexual with the said partner '' fades, THEN only then , the couple will realize that '' something is lacking '' honnestly i think it's better to build a relationship on emotionnal intimacy and intelectual intimacy rather than physical (sexual) intimacy, because that can be only a '' straw fire '' (not long lasting.)
I also think the couple in the story will have very good * domestic attraction * and will derive pleasure in living together, due to their connection and their sincere drive to be empathic to the other. And express their feelings clearly in a very relatable way. I have hope for that couple !!!
Truly , personnally the * domestic attraction * is so important, (if the goal is to find a good life partner) i realize that I wasn't really * domestically attracted * to my past partners , they weren't a good match to be < life partners > we were '' only '' lovers (which is not bad at all, but not super romantic in the cense of long lasting and being a familly and a home for each others)
the seme is someone who needs sex, he literally sleeps around unless the uke is okay with an open relationship the seme is gonna eventually cheat on him (obv they aren’t seme and uke im just using the terms ykyk)
this!! lol i forgot to reply with my thoughts to the comments above, but this was the most significant issue i had when reading this one. it’s just not realistic for me that the seme will suddenly stop needing sex just because they got together. in fact, he has some tendencies to cross the uke's boundaries, going beyond the sexual intimacy. anyways, it has been quite a long time since i’ve read this, so i might be wrong with what i said but that’s just my two cents
sorry but i feel like they would break up