He was conflicted that he was in love with a man.
So he would get Iljo to dress up as woman.
One day, when he told Iljo to suck him off in emergency stairway, Iljo's step-brother (not related by blood or law) who hated Iljo took photo of it and using that photo to spread around to out iljo and make his life miserable.
Because of the outing, the first thing this Ex did was to put all the blame on iljo.
He told everyone that iljo seduced a lot of men and slept with them. And this Ex said that he is one of the victim that got seduced...

Can anyone remind me what the thing with iljos ex bf was like was he also abusive or sum i dont remember