BL without abuse? I’ve got a bunch. Can you be more specific on your preferences? Mpreg? Beastmen? Demons? Fantasy? High school?
Also, because some people will tolerate stuff like this, but some won’t, let me ask in advance:
If in the beginning of the series the ML makes a mistake, such as “getting completely wasted at a work dinner. Coming home without knowing the MC was visiting. And then does something regretful to the MC because the ML thinks he’s dreaming,” or “being an alpha in an omegaverse series and encountering an omega in heat” - but in either case, immediately afterward (immediately being the key word) becomes a profusely apologetic individual, who will do anything to bring happiness to the person he unintentionally harmed… do you count these stories as having an abusive ML? It will help me with filtering the recommendations. I give you.

I started reading last night and I thought it would be a fun read but it was not ╥﹏╥
I stayed up until 4:30 skimming until the end because I had to get some closure...
Does anyone have any recs where the ML is not abusive?!