Tbh hes mentally ill and just acting how some mental ill ppl act. He just wants “the best” for his bf and he tends to forget how important the now is. From a mentally ill person.
he is a mentally ill abuse victim whose abuse was nationally publicised it doesn’t justify a lot of what he says but it runs way deeper for him than just having anxiety because it’s his first relationship & jungwoo is understanding of his circumstances and willing to work around / through them even when it gets frustrating. like a lot of what jiwon says and rationalises is not good but there’s way heavier context to it than just it being his first relationship. he doesn’t know how to interact with people normally because of child abuse and being a national figure in combination
Uke sound like a red flag to me. I mean I know you insecure and have anxiety like this is your first relationship and all you said, but using it as an excuse everytime you fought is such a shitty move. Like imagine your partner said things like "oh sorry this is my first relationship, maybe we should break up first let me gain an experience with other person then maybe we could get together again" wtf was that???
"You two looked good together (seme and someone else)" huh?? If you wanna to sound unbothered maybe you could phrase that differently.
He's lucky the seme could tolerate him. Because I will just agree to break up if my partner said that to me.