After a while it hurts but this is because im not used to it at all lol ,its also a matter of getting used to climaxing multiple times which I don't on a regular basis lol .Its like a numb feeling and a burning one but that also depends on the person lol and the toy ofc he got one of those clit vibrator things and every slight touch on it felt like a zap ,I was jumping out of my skin haha ,he had to hold me down and man. dude's way bigger than me physically, hence why It resulted to three orgasms haha
Being scared is natural and normal honestly I started having sex at 16 ,I certainly cant tell you much on the virgin thing lol but you gotta put yourself out there ,of course being cautious with who you wanna go out with it is a must ,not all men BUT most of them unfortunately. You just gotta search for the one you are most compatible with ,not just sex related obv

My boyfriend got some sex toys and we tried them on me ofc but I ended up crying after cumming like three times on a row ,its not for everyone ,and DEFINITELY do not put things up your urethra ,both genders are warned ,you need to know that shit and every equipment should be squeaky clean overall.