Probably not the pan in you, jealousy is fluid regardless of sexuality! Some people get jealous just from their partners talking to others and some people wouldn't even get jealous if their partners flirted or kissed other people!
That's why setting boundaries and having open communication is good for relationships because people's thoughts and feelings on a matter can differ so much!
you're right, setting boundaries and being honest about your feelings is the most important thing for a relationship to work and also to not become a bad person who makes their partner out to be a bad person too
Bro, I can't even imagine how they don't get jealous even if their partner flirt with other people?! I could never. ToT.
*Die from imaginary jealousy*
Its not the pan in you, I dislike people acting too chummy with my partner regardless of gender, youre just chill
Nah, you're just emotionally secure and staying true to yourself. Usually, jealousy stems from insecurity of the partner leaving, abandonment or probably just possessiveness so yeah
maybe it's the pansexual in me, but I'll never understand ppl who get jealous when their crush/significant other is "close" (or more like assumed to be) to someone just because they're the opposite gender and imagine a convoluted scenario in which they're lovers, just because they don't outwardly hate each other