This is so bullshit

You do realise that they spend time together as fwb NOT a proper relationship right? This is her very first relationship and she gave her virginity to a man who looks and acts like a womaniser and that man is all over social media with another woman buying her very very expensive gifts. They’ve only been properly dating for many a week or two? It’s not been long enough to test their relationship. He’s told her absolutely nothing about his own family or his childhood or anything that could humanise him or take away from that womaniser image she has of him. I’m an adult now. I had my first relationship at 12 years old. It’s been over a decade and I’d still feel the same way she does. I would be less melodramatic about it but I’m a private person with a poor relationship to my parents. The melodrama would be in my head not outside of it but it would still exist. He had plenty of opportunities to let her know he’s hosting his mum’s birthday party and send her a pic of his whole family that will be attending. He had plenty of time to win her over the correct way but instead he just had to treat her like a convenient fuck toy for a while. She is not being immature. In fact, I would have blocked him without letting him explain himself if this happened to me today. I’ve been cheated on before and I took the back stupidly and I won’t do that again. Trust is earned slowly and it isn’t given freely. She’s right to be anxious and she’s right to not trust him.

I get where you are coming from—also this is not here first relationship. Her ex was a dick—I see it. You had your points and it does make sense, but its story plot that makes it have loopholes and make it unbearable. Sure she has the right and has valid reaction—what Im referring to is how the author decides to play them. It sucks just how they chose this route. It may have seem I invalidated her feelings and such, like you have said, he had so many opportunities to discuss and show his family matters, and the plot did not—or should I say in the future he will clear this up.

Yeah I’m really annoyed with the way the author is doing things too. I also forgot that her douche of an ex existed since I don’t really consider that to be a proper relationship but rather a dude who tried to control her and got pissy when she wasn’t putting out. I think the author decided to rage bait all of us so that they can make the ending feel more satisfactory since that’s a very common thing authors are doing now. It’s honestly just a sign that the author isn’t a great one seeing as they have to use underhanded tactics like this to get the audience to enjoy the high points of the story but oh well.