he sees him as his responsibility / child of sort. he raised him n they do not have anyone else in the world. yes his attempts r not the way to go about it but he does it out of love n worry, n the black beast guy is kinda dork n dummy to begin with, so he still sees him as a kid who cant make his decisions n needs him to step in
+ this is not just any relationship drama or him simply not liking him as person. they live in a world where they r heavily discriminated against and minority. the same way there r people who discriminate them, they r also people who heavily sexualize them and sees them as objects to satisfy their fetish, which may in many cases be dangerous individuals. imagine your sister is a black woman and dating white man who is into slave fetish n dehumanitizing black people n is with your sister purely bcs of that. or your sister is trans before transition and her boyfriend is fetishizer who is into the fact she is trans n only is w her for sexual reasons. n you have proof that this is a pattern with his ex partners and that she is just another victim in line. in this case i hope u would step in n do everything to save her. thats how his older bro sees this situation.
yeah i agree, lots of more factors then that! put it very nicely!
As a black girl i completely understand how the older brother feels, even though i didn't grow up with siblings and i would be on his side 100% IF it wasn't for the fact that he doesn't know the full story like Mr Kang wasn't pursuing Dallae it was the other way round, and it isn't like Kang has only dated beastmen. Jin is a full-grown man and can make his own decisions. His brother's behaviour is quite excessive in my opinion and would only be justified if he witnessed/had proof of something dangerous going on. He advised Jin and showed him the folder of his past partners and Jin and Kang worked it out. Stalking Kang after this is too much. Jin is babied too much by Kang and his brother.
i know he doesnt know the full story, but based on the background check he did he sees clear pattern and proof mr kang is fetishizer of beast men, who has excesive amount of beast partners n is not one to stuck in relationships for long. if mr kang is fetishizer like he suspects do u really expects him to just confront him over coffee all silly billy like "oh btw do u use my brother to satisfy your sick fetish n will u discard him after ur done n find new beast man? :3" n expect mr kang to be honest?
yes i do agree stalking him after is too much, but as i said previously, he does not see dallae as an adult that is able to fully function, he was babied which is why hes dummy af and why he feels like he needs to protect him. he sees his own over protectivness as the omly way he can show him affection cause neither of them experienced anything else. are his methods fucked and wrong? YES. r they fully understandable once u understand his character? YESS
You do have a point there. Thanks for helping me understand the characters better. I don't like Dallae but I want to see how the story ends so I'll stick around for that.
Man as a older sibling you should know to not involve yourself in ur siblings relationships. I hate my sister's boyfriend but I ain't gonna force her to get away from him. It's her choice.