I personally didn't see any problem with it. They started as childhood friends & know eachother's faults & waknesses & still excepted eachother. Trying to change the person you're with to mold them into your ideal is lowly. It's also really unnatural & unrealistic for men to be sexually loyal to only one person, which is why cheating & avoidance of marriage is so prevelent in the real world. It's actually a pretty common & annoying issue in BL that ukes tend to act & think too much like women.
honestly, that is one of the most fucked-up statements I've ever heard. Where do I even start? For one thing, they did not start as childhood friends. fact. For another, no one in this story tried to change or mold anyone. where'd you even get that? Saying monogamy is an unnatural and unrealistic expectation for men is so chauvenist pig I can''t even believe it. Monogamy is unnatural for people, not just men. Talk about trying to mold reality into whatever you want. Ukes act like ukes. It's not correct to say they act too much like women and it's a problem. They are characters, not real people, and it's up to the author whose sole province it is to determine and direct the course of each story. This is a problem that you have. It's a generalization stemming from what you believe. You act too much like a man if you ask me, and not having a problem with the epilogue - I want to tell you to go in and have a talk with a therapist. that sounds bad but I mean it sincerely.
This epilogue sucked bigtime. Min, who I adored, is now portrayed as a selfish lover who wants to do it all the time, refusing to hear their partner say, "I'm suffering," A lover who will, if they don't get their way, cheat right in front of you, who is greedy and gets their way by manipulation. I really really liked Min. That's twice now, that the author turned Min, a wonderful character, into a complete asshole. The other time was when we saw him at the bar drinking with some woman after he's committed to being in a relationship with Hae-In. Why does the author have to spoil it for me? Fuck. Fuck. Fuck!!!