Finally someone understands it like me, I always thought I'm the only one pissed off by the top scenting the omega just because he became alpha.
Right, they’re both in the wrong but the bottom is gen pmo
Being upset at someone for scenting someone without their consent is valid but are we forgetting that he was a LITERAL child when he did that…ntm, the bottom is so upset about being an omega??? I’ve said this before and I will say it again, if Misogyny had a secondary gender, ts would be it.
I don’t like the top for what he does but people are blaming him more than the bottom when the bottom is actually more to blame for taking advantage of it, despite not liking it, instead of going to the cops or smth…
He wasn't just a kid? Did you not read at all that it revealed that later on he decided to continue scenting Juhyeok even after he grew up. What is Juhyeok supposed to be blame for when the top is the one who made him like that? Y'all can feel bad for su-ah and that's valid but you are literally reading in a fucking straightline and you condemn people for standing up for Juhyeok character?
If character is a "misogyny" y'all be saying anything. Character has those theme and inner conflicts that isn't just form by misogyny alone and you make it centralized as their whole personality without actually analyzing their character. "Instead of going to the cop" Hoe are you serious? Where is reading comprehension. Clearly he is having problem accepting himself. Su-ah is not to blame which by the way Juhyeok wanted space and said throughout the story that he want to learn to live without su-ah. Ofc he won't fucking report su-ah cus he fucking mutual love su-ah and care for him. Why the fuck else did he protect su-ah ever since they were a child from bullies and be heartbroken when he didn't turn up as an alpha? And y'all just go "why he ain't go to the doctor" "why he ain't go the police" do you even want any plot or story ATP?
Did we not read my text..I’m implying to him scenting WHEN HE WAS A KID
Acting like I’m the illiterate one when you completely took my comment out of proportion..Like I said, "I don’t like the top for what he does".
And Juhyeok is valid to blame the top for recessing into an omega but you can literally he that he HATES being an omega, that he sees them as small incompetent weakling, unable to protect themselves in need of an alpha, getting upset once he turns into one of those petite, small, cute, omegas, waiting for their alpha to protect them!!
If that’s not a fucked up way to thinking, then idk what’s up with you but I don’t fw that so dni!
And that IS misogyny if it had a SECONDARY Gender. Take that into consideration.
Whether it’s internalized or not, it is.
And ofc he can have problems with accept the sudden changes, but he clearly has no problem with fighting people, and cussing out the top, so wtf is stopping him from going to the cops? What does he do instead? He literally uses it to his advantage but then proceeds to bitch about it.
Under no presssure btw.
There is no fcking love.
He literally DESPISES him.
Idk what you read but it sure as hell ain’t him bc I'm pretty sure juhyeok despises him for Turning him into an omega in the first place and literally physically attacked them while they were still children, about it.
So I know you’re not talking about my reading comprehension when I know you haven’t even read the whole thing, pls-
And ain’t no way that you’re justifying not going to the police about assault, for the plot you’re js weird..
Juhyeok was a child when Su-ah began scenting him, and Su-ah continued even after Juhyeok became an adult, deliberately creating a dependency. Juhyeok doesn’t hate Su-ah if he truly did, he would have gone to the police but he also hasn’t fully admitted his love because he’s still grappling with trauma, identity, and inner conflict. Criticizing him for not reporting Su-ah or calling it “misogyny” ignores the story’s psychological reality: Juhyeok is navigating self acceptance, attachment, and moral grayness in a relationship that is intentionally messy. Meanwhile, Su-ah chooses to stay, balancing selfishness with genuine care. Framing Juhyeok as weird while saying he can just go to the cop oversimplifies everything and completely misses the point of their dynamic.
But isn't it stupid that the bottom did no research on his gender? Like that's being reckless and naive. He's 10% at fault for this dependency he has on Top. Like maybe he should suck up he's an OMEGA and learn how to take care of himself. Cause how he's acting is only making the top feel obligated to do this. If Bottom can show top that he's way of doing things is wrong, then top will top because he loves the bottom and is willing to listen. And he isn't the only selfish one can honestly the bottom more selfish and stubborn than him. Bottom is primarily thinking of himself which is good but when it comes to the top he doesn't really care how his actions affect him. So, please explain to me more clearly and logically because so far your somewhat victimising the bottom to a degree where nothing is his fault when majority of the instances would have never happened if he wasn't naive and actually decided to take care of his own Gender's needs. Battling Self acceptance doesn't mean you become reckless with your own gender. He should have educated himself on it, and maybe the top is doing this cause he has no faith in the bottom being able to truly take care of himself which is kinda true. Knowing how to fight has proven to be ineffective in chapter 1 or 2,so that should've been his wake up call. But again, both absolutely suck!
The entitlement went crazy honestly bro needs to touch grass
Dude wasn't even trying to protecting himself. He takes the cup of being the most stupid omega I've read after byul's mom during his younger days
Ts made me giggle
There is no such psychological reality that contrasts with misogyny.
He looks down on omegas, the same way one would look down on a woman, because they’re biologically weaker in muscle strength.
That’s literally it.
Apart from the fact that it’s a whole separate reality, and that even in omegaverse, it doesn’t come close to what misogyny has since at the end of the day, it’s still a secondary gender, but also the way he deals with becoming an omega coming close to it.
I’m not calling him a misogynist for not going to the cops, I’m criticizing his way of dealing with the whole situation without thinking how it would actually affect him long-term, and his general mindset on Omegas…ofc the top is also very wrong for what he does, but the issue is that the bottom is literally allowing him to do that, in fact, he’s even inviting him and encouraging him to do it, because it helps him short-term.
That’s the issue I have with the bottom, and I’m not even gonna start with the issues I have with the top
Yes. See this is how I understood the story so far.
First they're both wrong and hurting themselves.
Juhyeok since they are young have been protective of Su-ah because when they were young he was timid. So juhyeok work extra hard to strengthen himself because he promised Su-ah to always protect him or that's what he wanted, and everyone in their circle believes so as well. Then when he presented as Omega suddenly everyone is treating him like a weak person like the stereotype Omega (fragile and needs to be protected), and of course I understand the side of his mom too she just doesn't know. But anyways, so when Juhyeok is hurting about this fact and not because he presented as Omega, even when they went to college he was treated as nothing but an Omega even though he is part of the Judo or Taekwondo team. And he doesn't hate Su-ah or being with him it's just that whenever they're together he can't seem to control his pheromones whenever Su-ah is around and didn't know at first that Su-ah was coating him with his Alpha pheromones which Juhyeok didn't want (which is understandable), but I think it's also because Juhyeok wants to show Su-ah that he's the same person as they were young the one that can protect him and take care of himself, he wants Su-ah to realize that he is not the stereotype Omega.
Su-ah really loves juhyeok we can see that since they were young is a real sweet child and loves how juhyeok cares and protects him. Then he presented as Alpha he thinks that as an Alpha Juhyeok would not like him or would stop being protective of him as the stereotype to be Alpha should be the stronger and protective one, so the solution he came up with was covering juhyeok with his pheromones so juhyeok will be dependent to him (which is totally wrong in my opinion) but as he see Juhyeok strengthening himself and always pushing him away he doesn't even want him going to his gym. he thinks juhyeok is rejecting him because he became Alpha. And I also think he wants to prove to Juhyeok the he as an Alpha that can protect them both and he really wants to show to Juhyeok how much he loves him by being there always.
This is how I understood the story so far and I think what they need is a slumber party just talking to each other how they feel after getting they're secondary genders because that's where it all went downhill...
Please don't be mad at me this is 100% my opinion I just want to share
I didn’t read the whole text yet but one thing I would like to correct you on is that nobody except the ml knows that he’s an omega yet, so your statement where you claim that "when he presented as Omega, suddenly everyone is treating him like a weak person, like the stereotypical Omega" doesn’t make much sense.
It’s not that everyone around him is suddenly treating him like a weak person and like the stereotype for omegas, it’s that he is the type of person to look down on Omegas and sees them as weak and as people that need to be protected and got really upset when he found out that he was one of those omega because he has said stereotype as a mindset
There's no character improvement whatsoever! Like both are horrible to each other. Periodt! Yall victimising the heck out the bottom for being scented without permission, but that doesn't excuse how awful he's treating the top. And the top is on the very narrow line of toxic obsession because tell me why he's forcing a relationship that isn't there. These two need to realise the amount of true worth they mean to each other, and suck up that not everything goes their way and that they should be grateful for what they're given cause blaming it on gender is so boring! Accept your secondary gender!