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He's not bad but not good

Liliheaity February 12, 2026 1:07 am

I'm seeing many comments praising him for the way he took care of her when she was at her lowest point during her depression.
You're gravely mistaken if you think making food for someone and telling them to "get over it" when they have trauma is a good way of helping them.

Of course he is kind in the way he DOES things for her, but he is not supporting her or helping her get better. The most basic thing to do is tell her that she needs help (like a psychologist you know...) and that's something that is really weird even in the present, acting like she'll heal on her own. Like of course you can get better alone, but how is she supposed to heal from her depression long term without any help ?
When you're depressed, you need support not only materially but emotionnaly and mentally. He only did the first ans still continues to do so in the present (even if it seems like he is a little more emotionally present now).

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    Liliheaity February 12, 2026 1:10 am

    also just to add to what I said, she litterally has AMNESIA and he's like "get over it" and they never even DISCUSS seeing a psychologist O.O
    Even other people around her never mentioned it like wtf you're just hoping that somehow she'll get her memories back and heal from everything magically ??