Idk I feel like it’s mix i see what ur saying but they was literally kids when that happened and ML was just a kid who felt strong feeling I do believe he took it too far in the years when he kept chasing him and putting MC in uncomfortable positions but I feel like ML felt somewhat responsible that he was an alpha and MC was a omega and that he had something to do with it but his obsession took it too far and I feel like MC is too hooked on too being an omega I get the shock tho but it’s life can’t hate ur secondary gender forever just gotta learn to cope with it and be happy

I will be honest, both of them is wrong in this particular situation. But I sympathize with the MC more since the ML took away his autonomy since they were young. He made it so the MC cant do anything without him and has to include hin in his life. And the amount of delusion that the ML has to think that they were in love atp was insane to have especially after they weren't talking that often just before that outing. The whole story gives dubcon, and delusion atp.