To anyone who needs the reminder, The person you're enchanted with is still an individual. They have a birthday, live, breathe, shit, bleed all that good stuff. They are an autonomous person like you, not just your crush. They are entitled to their agency. To love this person and to have them love you is an active decision of both parties. To maintain that love is to let go of possession and respect that person as themselves every second that passes. DO NOT be like that blonde dumb ass, respect a person's decision, their space AND their privacy.
To anyone who needs the reminder, The person you're enchanted with is still an individual. They have a birthday, live, breathe, shit, bleed all that good stuff. They are an autonomous person like you, not just your crush. They are entitled to their agency. To love this person and to have them love you is an active decision of both parties. To maintain that love is to let go of possession and respect that person as themselves every second that passes.
DO NOT be like that blonde dumb ass, respect a person's decision, their space AND their privacy.