Push-over female lead

Yh fr

Yes but to be fair if she was being treated like this even when she said that’s not true (which from the way she tells us the story it appears that’s what happened) of course her spirit will break. Men keep lying about sleeping with her or being seduced by her, and when she says it’s not true people never believe her anyway. What is the point of fighting after a while?

I agree with this statement. No matter how much you fight and no one listens, in the end you'll even have a worst reputation than you currently have unless one person actually listens to you to make a change. It's like talking to a brick wall so of course you'll get tired.

Sure, but then she fully says things that make the rumours seem true, it’s annoying

Have you ever felt so frustrated in your entire life because youve been falsely accused multiple times that no one even wanted to listen to you no matter how much you say and snapped back like that? Her first friend slapped her and believed the guy, anyone tired of it would've hurl something back because apparently saying the truth goes over peoples head. It's a defense mechanism.

Yes actually, if I stood there and acted like the rumours were true then I can’t sit there and cry “woe is me” you’re basically telling them every bad rumour they’ve been spreading is true and they were justified in their actions. You loose all credibility at that point… be so fr

I mean yea, but I think that was actually the first time she did that because it was the first time she got close to get a friend. She thought the girl loves her fiancé so she said that to pretend like the guy actually rejected him because he loved his fiancé. It wouldn’t be something I’d do or I think it’s smart, but I do understand this instance. Previous ones we don’t see her saying anything like this, she only says this twice, first time to the girl she thought she could’ve befriend, second time to the sister who she thought was cute and trying to protect her boyfriend. The guy even mentions this is the exact wording of what she said to other girl, so I don’t think it’s something she always does or used to. So she doesn’t act like rumors are true all the time, she just doesn’t argue back anymore since no one cares anyway, and now she just decided to go along with to protect some girls feelings.

She already lost credibility from the start -- even before the battle has started because of rumors that people eat up instead of believing her. She didn't even cry or complain, it seems she just accepted the harsh truth that no one with brains will ever listen to her. It's tiring to keep repeating your side of the story to people who won't see reason. So let's be real, even if she shouted at them the truth and do anything about it, do you think in that type of society where almost everyone believed in her rumors, they'll see her side? Nah, they'll just make up even worse rumors or like what happened when she got physically assaulted by I think the son of the prime minster or future prime minister.

YOOoooOoo. I actually have a Story Time

I rejected a dude in college. He went around asking people if I was actually innocent or if I was a secretly seducing people. Word got around that I was a slut. It’s a small major, soon I felt weird eyes looking at me.

I confronted the guy and he had the audacity to ask if we were still going out to see a movie that weekend.

Broke off that friendship.

Got a restraining order.

Was followed one night while getting food by one of his friends.

Got cornered in an elevator, and when I got out of elevator went down the stairs and was followed.

Reported the friend group.

Got reported for sharing nudes of myself. What fucking nudes?

Professors started looking at me weird, mix of curiosity, pity and confusion.

Rumors going around I fuck professors for grades.

I clear up the rumors again, but people believe what they want to believe.

One guy even said “who cares if people think you’re a slut?” I start to tear up because not only do I not sleep around but I was a virgin and I didn’t even have a boyfriend. He repeats “sleeping around isn’t a bad thing”. I realize he thinks I’m lying about being a virgin and is trying to sleep with me by reassuring me it’s ok to sleep around.

Different day different guy catches me crying alone in a corner of school, he knows the drama and comforts me. It’s fine. He puts his hand on my shoulder, I can tell he wants to kiss. I physically have to stop myself from throwing up. Get into a full blown panic attack and run away.

I stick to my small group of friends, the newer students now know me as the slut who reported XXX and his friends.

It’s never the same. I concentrate on school and try to move on. I still have nightmares.

I did everything right. I confronted the dude. Tried to reason with his friends. Told the school. Told the advisors. Told the dean. Reported inappropriate conduct. I was strong. I fought. It was pointless. At most, my actions helped me defend myself but it doesn’t end. lol.

I’m an adult now,
I went to Olive Garden. Met with my sister and my niece and as I walked past a table a man stared at my figure the moment I walked in down to the second I sat in my seat. I get it. I was wearing a low cut shirt and form fitting pants, you’re allowed to stare. But his eyes were glued to my breast. I shooed him away politely said “stop that”, he looked shocked and stuttered out a hello. He wouldn’t stop staring at my body. I waved him off aggressively this time and said “FUCK OFF”. He looked pissed but he finally looked away. I had to get the waiter to move our seats. I couldn’t taste the food because I was so mad.

I even get looks from family friends who met me in diapers.

The whole “don’t be nice to me , don’t laugh with men, don’t cry in front of men, don’t ask help of men,” is real af dude.

It’s easier to ignore them, it’s exhausting af.