The thing with the blond dude is that he's already emotionally intimate with the mom because personally I think that it would be weird if he were to end up with the fl (idk I think this is just a me problem tho) and I also can't sense any chemistry with him and the fl probably because blond dude is acting like a father.
And the thing with the childhood friend is that I feel so bad for bro already because dude is literaly dealing with so much shit in his life that what he needs is a good financial plot twist and not some uncertain romance while facing a pile of problems.
The mom and daughter needs to talk it out with just the TWO of them.
The fl needs therapy, new better friends, and an alone healing vacation away from all of them.
The mom also needs to learn how to face problems on her own without any man.

I don't want her to end up with both of the two ml. Girlie is already fed up with so much issues in her own life that I think she shouldn't involve herself with the others' problems. All of them needs therapy and to get their shit together on their own.