That's oddly specific
the seme from history of willful negligence does dirty talk too iirc
I tried my best to find some — here’s 3
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/profundis/ (ch 38 uke is pissed off cause seme keeps saying he’ll save him if he asks but keeps passing him around anyway)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_best_luck_of_my_life/uu/br_chapter-245440/pg-1/ ( ch 51 — uke is hurt cause the seme won’t kiss him during sex & obviously mad)
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/pond_with_flowers/ (ch 15 — uke is mad cause seme keeps asking why he’s crying during sex when its pretty damn obvious)
Any BL recommendations where the ML does dirty talk while having sex but MC didn't like it and ended up getting emotionally hurt or crying because of it.
Example:
Fugiken Kareshi — Mc was called lewd and didn't like it.
Define the Relationship — Ml kept mentioning other men would want to see Mc like that and Mc didn't like it too.