This story really takes me back to when my girlfriend and I had just started dating. I was Johee—an avoidant. Although I loved my girlfriend, I was never really showy about it. It hurt her, but she kept holding on until I eventually ended things between us.
A few months later, we interacted again. it just happened out of nowhere. I showed her that I had changed for the better because she never really deserved all the pain she went through because of me. It’s been two years since then, and now we’re more honest about our feelings and happier than we were back then. It’s not always guaranteed that you’ll have someone like that, so we really should heal first, or we’ll keep hurting someone with good intentions and genuine love. Lol.
This story really takes me back to when my girlfriend and I had just started dating. I was Johee—an avoidant. Although I loved my girlfriend, I was never really showy about it. It hurt her, but she kept holding on until I eventually ended things between us.
A few months later, we interacted again. it just happened out of nowhere. I showed her that I had changed for the better because she never really deserved all the pain she went through because of me. It’s been two years since then, and now we’re more honest about our feelings and happier than we were back then. It’s not always guaranteed that you’ll have someone like that, so we really should heal first, or we’ll keep hurting someone with good intentions and genuine love. Lol.