bc kira doesnt want this man and even if she did she'd get cheated on with her own brother so surely that's not the hill we're dying on.
I see people also bring up that it tarnishes kira's reputation, which is confusing bc it doesn't seem like it's a known rumour and not even kieran brings up any reputation so i dont get it rlly.
and for him going for the wife of one of his knights, idfk i dont generally feel such intense hatred for "the other woman" but you do you i guess? idk??
i promise u tho it makes reading easier when you realise it's 2 idiots that have less than a situationship going on trialing the idea of committing to <???>

if i look at the comments long enough i start to get the feeling ppl are looking for reasons to like slut shame him or something bc he has a libertine sex life past the start of the story, and people are used to the entirety of a bl being about a relationship between 2 people.
which like is fine but you can like be honest about your feelings