That dude is not a green flag at all, like yes he redeems himself but he's full of red flags, and that's ok. A character can be full of shit but still have redeeming qualities and still get love. A character doesn't have to be a saint to be worthy of love or be likeable, it just depends on preferences.
Don’t listen to the other replies! I got to chapter 45 and I’m absolutely dropping it. It doesn’t get any better, the mc keeps on getting raped numerous times, gets pregnant and from what I’ve seen online, he stays with ml in the end??? I guess the shockingly high rating comes from the concerning amount of people, who are into non consensual relationships…

i'm at chapter 18 and i already feel like dropping it not even halfway through. ml is a crazy fuck. absolute asshole. he sucks. i hate him. why does he keep forcing himself on the mc? seriously, what an ass.