Nope, not just you. I really hate itwhen they start with a sex scene. Most people will hate me but I actually prefer slow burns and light sabers ... oops
Most do it as a hook to get people to read it.
There are common goods and rare goods. The almost-all-smut and the common stuff you see nowadays and still read merely coz they fit the bl genre, while slow burns are the rare goods that really hook you. The former is the ones you read to kill time but still somehow forget coz they're all the same, the latter is what you get reminded of by almost anything
I've been getting an ick about recent BLs lately.
Why do they all start with a sex scene or have a sex scene in the first 2 to 5 chapters? Feels like the plot no longer matters.
Might be just me but