The switch up from Allen is basically how situationships work. They don't love u more when u pull away, it's not like they regret what they are missing out of, its just that it triggers their parental/attachment issues. They seek people who don't care about them like their parents did, so that they can prove to themselves they are worthy of love and thats why they usually throw u away when u end up liking them. The urge is then gone. Don't mistake it for love and be careful out there folks!
The switch up from Allen is basically how situationships work. They don't love u more when u pull away, it's not like they regret what they are missing out of, its just that it triggers their parental/attachment issues. They seek people who don't care about them like their parents did, so that they can prove to themselves they are worthy of love and thats why they usually throw u away when u end up liking them. The urge is then gone. Don't mistake it for love and be careful out there folks!