I never like the sunbae either. But set that aside, their family story is so sweet tho. And hosik feels so 'human'. The side stories is our favorite, the issues and some part maybe relatable for people so that's why this become their comfort manhwa(?) The kidsss are just fluff u kno.. Or most of us just agreed to erase the beginning of the story from our mind for our own peace lmao
as for me I'm here just to reread the sides for the nth times already lol
Also their communication is top notch, no dragging or what not. And there's always explanation for everything there, kinda.

This is far from being the most problematic BL out there but i really can’t fathom liking the sunbae . The way he just gaslights hosik after he assaults him and gets him pregnant i think i could have stomached this better if he were just outright abusive then redeemed rather than but having the story actually root for the sunbae? I just can’t what happened to hosik is literally my worst nightmare and i don’t understand why it’s being treated as if it’s nothing. That’s why I dob’t quite get how this is a comfort manga for ppl. But… if you kinda feel the same as me, does the sunbae ever get redeemed? Or are the actions explained? Does he apologize or does it just ignore the initial premise? How so u get over that initial ick for the creepy sunbae? I just like art and really want to give it a chance.