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Are yall so porn addicted that you guys forget that BDSM is a spectrum? And that the vast majority of BDSM is actually quite tame? A lot of freaky vanillas don’t even realise they are actually mild BDSMers because porn only shows the hardcore extremist stuff. Spanking, blindfolds, gags, toys being left in, overstimulation, dirty talk, creampies outside of baby making, ALL OF THAT IS MILD BDSM!! Vanillas use them all the time but it’s actually originally all BDSM. Being disappointed that it’s not hardcore just proves yall need therapy for porn addiction. Not everything needs to be hardcore people!