i totally get both of them and i get why people are mad at garam too, but he is the one who was gay his entire life and KNOWS what is like, even tho jae thinks that its okay and he's willing to do it bc he loves garam now he does not know how its like even tho he was a homophobic jerk before garam, he dont take it as serious as it is and being queer myself i totally get why garam is afraid, not really mad but afraid that jae is gonna lose everything bc of him, and that conversation with his parents is one of the reasons too, they definitely need to talk but i dont think it was totally garam's fault
i totally get both of them and i get why people are mad at garam too, but he is the one who was gay his entire life and KNOWS what is like, even tho jae thinks that its okay and he's willing to do it bc he loves garam now he does not know how its like even tho he was a homophobic jerk before garam, he dont take it as serious as it is and being queer myself i totally get why garam is afraid, not really mad but afraid that jae is gonna lose everything bc of him, and that conversation with his parents is one of the reasons too, they definitely need to talk but i dont think it was totally garam's fault