No one is really right or wrong here, they both made their mistakes, and have valid points. Jaehyuk doesnt have the same experiences Garam has when it comes to being gay, and fails to consider Garam reason for caution. he hasn’t had to deal with the shame that comes with it, but Garam being afraid of what others think will also hold their relationship back.
They really just need some honest talking once they aren’t in a headspace of just being hurt

They should make a PowerPoint presentation with all the points till now because I no longer know who I should support