Writing Bibi honestly deserves better. I don’t get why the author chose this direction. Is this really what some women want to see? Wanting a loyal, kind, hardworking man while also having a side relationship is just unfair. Yes, she’s human, but being human doesn’t excuse hurting someone who genuinely cares for you. There are plenty of people who go through struggles and still choose to do the right thing. It feels like the female lead is mentally and emotionally unstable, especially when Bibi is out there working hard and staying committed, while she’s on the verge of betraying him.
I understand that the author might be trying to make the story more interesting by adding the second male lead, but it shouldn’t come at the cost of ruining the main relationship like this. If that was the plan, then the plot could’ve been written differently. Maybe it would make more sense in a modern setting where casual relationships are more common, but in this kind of setting, it just feels off.
I consider myself a feminist, but that also means being fair and logical. If you have a good partner, you shouldn’t betray them. That applies to everyone, regardless of gender. Cheating usually comes from insecurity, loss of feelings, or trying to fill some kind of emotional gap—but that still doesn’t justify it. At the end of the day, it’s just wrong.
Writing
Bibi honestly deserves better. I don’t get why the author chose this direction. Is this really what some women want to see? Wanting a loyal, kind, hardworking man while also having a side relationship is just unfair.
Yes, she’s human, but being human doesn’t excuse hurting someone who genuinely cares for you. There are plenty of people who go through struggles and still choose to do the right thing. It feels like the female lead is mentally and emotionally unstable, especially when Bibi is out there working hard and staying committed, while she’s on the verge of
betraying him.
I understand that the author might be trying to make the story more interesting by adding the second male lead, but it shouldn’t come at the cost of ruining the main relationship like this. If that was the plan, then the plot could’ve been written differently. Maybe it would make more sense in a modern setting where casual relationships are more common, but in this kind of setting, it just feels off.
I consider myself a feminist, but that also means being fair and logical. If you have a good partner, you shouldn’t betray them. That applies to everyone, regardless of gender. Cheating usually comes from insecurity, loss of feelings, or trying to fill some kind of emotional gap—but that still doesn’t justify it. At the end of the day, it’s just wrong.