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What I understand you’re saying : Ian is a victim of TJ and he chose him, so Ian deserves to live in pain and sadness
If you only view him as a victim of TJ then why do you still want him miserable Σ( ￣□￣||)
I just want say this but now I completely believe that Ian deserves to continue living in guilt, sorrow, and pain, after chosing the man who literally use you like a ragdoll and manipulated you like a muppet. You use to choose someone who cause you pain for years, all because he apologized after over 15YEARS!!!! after playing you like around, he comes around after realizing the other shining toys he had were really not that great and so he comes to pick up the abandon ragdoll because that's the only thing he can fully control. You were never his first option nor his second but the always available option. And you chose him over the man he took you as his first and only option...
I hope you would continue to be remembered of you dark past as you continue to live with him, you would continue to feel the reopen scars as they cause you sharp pains and make you relieve your darkest moments. And the person I pity for the most is the person that would later have to listen to your bullshit when you complain in the future because you are definitely going to do so, after all we all know your type....