Both are at fault in their own ways. Jaehyuk needs to communicate with Garam more before making big decisions that concern their relationship. It's inconsiderate and annoying. But Garam also needs to consider how Jaehyuk feels. Garam has queer friends, people he can confide in and turn to, while comparatively Jaehyuk is going through a big change (his sexual identity literally changed), but can only rely on Garam. It isn't fair. These are Jaehyuk's friends, not random strangers.
The timing was incorrect as well as the method, but if in the future Jaehyuk decided he wanted to come out in a way that didn't involve Garam, that is his right. It is also his right to be in a public relationship! He is actually completely entitled to that, as is Garam for wanting to keep it under wraps. They simply have conflicting values and will have to resolve this if they want their relationship to continue. It is incorrect to portray any of their opinions as the 'wrong' one.
Both are at fault in their own ways. Jaehyuk needs to communicate with Garam more before making big decisions that concern their relationship. It's inconsiderate and annoying. But Garam also needs to consider how Jaehyuk feels. Garam has queer friends, people he can confide in and turn to, while comparatively Jaehyuk is going through a big change (his sexual identity literally changed), but can only rely on Garam. It isn't fair. These are Jaehyuk's friends, not random strangers.
The timing was incorrect as well as the method, but if in the future Jaehyuk decided he wanted to come out in a way that didn't involve Garam, that is his right. It is also his right to be in a public relationship! He is actually completely entitled to that, as is Garam for wanting to keep it under wraps. They simply have conflicting values and will have to resolve this if they want their relationship to continue. It is incorrect to portray any of their opinions as the 'wrong' one.