*For Garam
I think the issue is garam leaving without saying anything. He could just say we need a break. Instead he going all mute over a argument that can be taken care of with convo
I agree: he is in a relationship. You want space? Tell him, but leaving like this when there is someone loving him.. no
Then they should've sit down and talk. Not fucking run away every chance possible. Seme is so good to him he probably would suggest living abroad if that's the only way they could live happily forever without pressure after coming out
And risk another fight and leaving even more sour? He literally argued on his BIRTHDAY and the day after. Im not defending Garam, but Jaehyuk got Angers issues
Tbh, the best solution is Breaking up. His parents hate him, he got trauma from homophobic people, he is in a homophobic country, he feels pressured by his bf spending too much on him, like he lost his cards and all and is willing to loose his job as well. What y'all dont understand is that sometimes a lot is too much. You cannot make sacrifices for someone without their consent. Remember how uncomfortable Garam was when he found out. Garam doesn't want to be exposed which is fair and Jaehyuk wants it to be out which is fair too. Either one gives up on their views or they break up. And really, Jaehyuk would have left Garam more sour than he already is if he says he's leaving. It's best to leave now.
Yeah it’s too much
Honestly breaking up is just gonna be make Garam more bitter with life. The only person in his life who cares so much with him doesn't want to put up with him anymore? He'd honestly think he doesn't deserve love or smth later. Basically it's gonna more harmful in the long run. If only they can talk to each other and communicate. Welp
I understand why people are mad at Garam, but living in a homophobic country myself. I understand. I've seen people get killed, harassed, prevented from good jobs and even universities for that. He isn't leaving just for him but because he knows that Jaehyuk (srry if i Wrote it wrong) is too reckless. There is a way to say it... And Garam is already on Edge with Jae's parents... BECAUSE HE SACRIFICED A LOT OF GARAM... And dude literally is willing to loose his job, the job that pays the apartment for him. It's a lot of pressure and trauma triggers. Understand him