Unfortunately as a girl myself I'd hate to point it out but every other girl I've known that read bl/yaoi of any kind at some point fetishized it heavily. Aka same scenario as the guys one excluding the big boobs (although they manage to give them some at times) and more so blackmailing/aphrodisiacs and lot of other with VERY dubious consent (don't get me even started on omegaverse or guideverse) and mostly also just rape and smut filled left and right.. (we all know omegaverse is just girls having an extreme obsession with get men pregnant which is also a fetish/kink)
But then what's the point in making a post like so only to completely do a 180 while replying to others if not for either it being satire (I don't get the joke) wanting to get a reaction out of ppl aka ragebaiting them (also not nearly as fun for anyone involved as you'd think it is) or just that actually being your opinion only to change it cz others disagree with you.
Don't blame me for pointing out the obvious (pause on the argument I ain't backing down but it's great to see another Hannibal fan)
Because that's just what the whole point of most of the popular ones nowadays, no? Maybe there are SOME decent ones out there but the well known ones include straight up fetishes out in the open. They want to include a power dynamic between the two where one of the characters has to depend on the other so badly with the usual compensation being sex. Guideverse is a joke in my opinion and I'm not taking that back, what? Need sex to feel better? That's the whole plot? Bullshit.
I can tolerate omegaverse up to a certain point because it's been around for so long but guideverse is a while nother topic
lmaoo I actually agree with you on this thus I try and refrain from most modern bl and I'll read the odd guideverse (as long as there's no guides in the relationship) or omegaverse if it's alphaxalpha/ beta (perhaps one exception). My blgraphy is mainly psychological or whatever, actually this feels like a resume. Anyways I have high standards per my "dog shit" list, not everyone is like me I know that but I do agree with the fetish thing. Girl! Check my other question where I call out plp for this exact thing. I seem to have a track record for causing arguments lmaooo
You want me to be completely honest? Just sick and tired of seeing degrading manhwa porn which is obviously targeted towards men so I wanted to be messy about it and see what guys had to say about it so I could challenge them, I wanted to call some men out for being incels but i just got a bunch of non-men responding, no offense. Also the brackets at the end got me giggling

Guys: girl with ginormous boobs being railed by some horny degenerate and it's either incest, maid, secretary or some other demeaning position in regards to the mc
Gals: doomed BL which actually confronts social and political problems, complex characters trying to survive in the deeply troubled world or environment they exist in, relationships with no labels, love with no boundaries, endings that show eternity (nothing can truly express what doomed BL is)