People that just disappear without a word, specially when they have close ties with each other like these two do, are irredeemable in my eyes. The emotional distress and wondering if the person is still alive or if you’re the cause of them leaving, you start blaming yourself too, when it’s THEM that is the problem, not you. They are the cowards. What was the point of going through all these trials and tribulations if you can’t communicate to your partner. You didn’t get kidnapped, you left on your own accord, regardless of the reason.
Yes and worse your partner doesn't even know whether you're in danger or kidnapped, whether you're still ALIVE or not. Like if this is a story of an abusive husband and the mc is running away from domestic violence then yes I'm all for it. go change your identity live your life and take your shitty husband to court. But this isn't that kind of story and haebom just acts like such a selfish scumbag to me.

........but if i found out that one day my husband that i've known since childhood suddenly disappears for months, causing me heavy emotional distress, only to find out that he's been hiding somewhere working a job while telling me that he had been cheating on me with a woman i would've divorced him immediately. Haebom suuuuckkksss and there's no justification that'll ever make me sympathize with him.