Garam is projecting the insecurities he is gained from his trauma onto Jaehyuk and that is not fair to him. I wish he would just explain it to him instead of making decisions for him on his behalf as of everyone processes or takes grief, and/or criticisms, the same way. Jaehyuk has already shown through his own parent he doesn't give a f*ck what anyone has to say about his relationship with him and that is his experience in his journey. Garam had the complete opposite experience, which was absolutely devastating and it's justified for him to not want to be open about their relationship, but outside of telling Jaehyuk about how his sh*t flipped on him, he never fully expressed what that meant for him going forward (unless I forgot, it's been a long journey with them). So it really, per usual, all comes down to COMMUNICATION! And also, therapy, but let's start with communicating with out partners then seeking the help needed. Geez, these stories stress me out sometimes.
Garam is projecting the insecurities he is gained from his trauma onto Jaehyuk and that is not fair to him. I wish he would just explain it to him instead of making decisions for him on his behalf as of everyone processes or takes grief, and/or criticisms, the same way. Jaehyuk has already shown through his own parent he doesn't give a f*ck what anyone has to say about his relationship with him and that is his experience in his journey. Garam had the complete opposite experience, which was absolutely devastating and it's justified for him to not want to be open about their relationship, but outside of telling Jaehyuk about how his sh*t flipped on him, he never fully expressed what that meant for him going forward (unless I forgot, it's been a long journey with them). So it really, per usual, all comes down to COMMUNICATION! And also, therapy, but let's start with communicating with out partners then seeking the help needed. Geez, these stories stress me out sometimes.