you should be honest about your feelings to her. do you love her? if it’s her you love, you should let her know that you care about her and you are willing to put effort in, as well that you are scared. if u you arent sure about your feelings, spend time with yourself and think about what u value in life. relationships are hard, and u cant tell what the other is thinking, but she might be thinking the same thing
you should think about what you feel first then be honest and tell her. i’ve been there and it honestly sucks but you should talk it out and discuss where you guys should go from here.
I think it’s too late, even if I text her it won’t erase what we’re going through now
I’ll text her what I feel though, I wonder how she’ll respond
Thanks for the comment, really, thank you
We did discuss a little, it always ends up with us not understanding the other
I’ll think about a nice message to text her, and I’ll see what will happen next
Thank you so much for your reply
i had a big fight with my gf and now we text each other so coldly all the time.
I kinda wanna have someone to talk to but she was my only go-to for all my troubles and vents.
I’m not a very open and sharing person (about my problems) and all my friends are in the same friend group as her, I’ve got literally no one to talk about how scare I am of us going our separate ways
I miss our time together, I miss what we had…
but somewhere in me I already accepted that we won’t make it to 2 years and 6months, (which would be in 1 month) but man if it’s hard
Although we didn’t actually break up, talking to her feels so cold no matter what I do
I just wish we didn’t fight or I wish she’d just break up with me or help me understand if we can go back to be how we used to be