Oh boo hoo Garam - that was my gut response. Boo freaking hoo. Maybe it's too harsh but geez... so it's all about your fear of being outed and people hating you for it? Fair enough I guess it's a valid fear, but don't take it out on your boyfriend just because he wouldn't care if it happened to him. You're doing that exact betrayal to jaehyuk right now that you said is the worst thing. Cowardly. Deserves to be sad right now. I'm so sick of sob stories!!
Yes this is all very mean - not a lot of compassion for him but my gosh he's being very woe is me about it all. Have the conversation and ask for more processing time - thinking dan and phil style.... I'm not saying he should get over it and just be openly gay when he's not ready, just that jaehyuk deserves a chance to fall step with you, not be cut off. I know it won't end here, it's not real and is just for the drama but it's also incredibly boring knowing they're just going to get back together eventually anyway so what is the point in this outside of padding? I'm bored, get on with it guys, what even is this story about anymore! There's no good ending that will be believable to me unless Garam goes to therapy at this point. Is this really the story we want to put grand discussions of homophobia and trauma in? Really??
Got a bit away from me there but geeeeez this one pissed me off for some reason.
Oh boo hoo Garam - that was my gut response. Boo freaking hoo. Maybe it's too harsh but geez... so it's all about your fear of being outed and people hating you for it? Fair enough I guess it's a valid fear, but don't take it out on your boyfriend just because he wouldn't care if it happened to him. You're doing that exact betrayal to jaehyuk right now that you said is the worst thing. Cowardly. Deserves to be sad right now. I'm so sick of sob stories!!
Yes this is all very mean - not a lot of compassion for him but my gosh he's being very woe is me about it all. Have the conversation and ask for more processing time - thinking dan and phil style.... I'm not saying he should get over it and just be openly gay when he's not ready, just that jaehyuk deserves a chance to fall step with you, not be cut off. I know it won't end here, it's not real and is just for the drama but it's also incredibly boring knowing they're just going to get back together eventually anyway so what is the point in this outside of padding? I'm bored, get on with it guys, what even is this story about anymore! There's no good ending that will be believable to me unless Garam goes to therapy at this point. Is this really the story we want to put grand discussions of homophobia and trauma in? Really??
Got a bit away from me there but geeeeez this one pissed me off for some reason.