That this is so relatable and how much they empathise with the author...
Yeah it's true. If you grew up with an emotionally abusive mother, you'll understand this.
I just wanna cry man and I haven't lived with my mother in over a decade. This shit lingers with you. It certainly can and does better and you can establish those boundaries but it takes time and this pain doesn't ever fully go away. There's moments I wish my family could have been more normal, I wish my neurodiversity had been noticed and I got the help I needed, but I got nothing until I confessed that I wanted to die and then I got anti depressants. But I know true normalicy doesn't exist. I just wanted a parent-friend, someone who could understand me and respect me, and instead I became a parentified child and then an adult with a personality disorder and undiagnosed AuDHD ╮(￣▽￣)╭
That this is so relatable and how much they empathise with the author...
Yeah it's true. If you grew up with an emotionally abusive mother, you'll understand this.
I just wanna cry man and I haven't lived with my mother in over a decade. This shit lingers with you. It certainly can and does better and you can establish those boundaries but it takes time and this pain doesn't ever fully go away. There's moments I wish my family could have been more normal, I wish my neurodiversity had been noticed and I got the help I needed, but I got nothing until I confessed that I wanted to die and then I got anti depressants. But I know true normalicy doesn't exist. I just wanted a parent-friend, someone who could understand me and respect me, and instead I became a parentified child and then an adult with a personality disorder and undiagnosed AuDHD ╮(￣▽￣)╭