bare minimum : letting someone live rent free at your place, driving them to see their grandmother in another city every week, giving them a job, taking them to amusement parks dinner and shopping, gifting them clothes, trying their best to become a better person for them, telling them their secrets which they’ve hid from everyone around them, giving them a humongous salary, and having amazing sex.. teaching them self defense, standing up for them when someone’s talking shit about them and apologizing multiple times for their past mistakes. what else do yall want from this man he’s trying his best even tho he never had to do these things before making it a completely new and different experience! yall just want him to become an angel from one day to another that’s just not how things work especially for someone like jk

do yall really expect him to change from one day to another? he’s got so much pride to him ofc it would take much longer for him to kick the habit of ordering people around and being harsh when he’s upset. you’re making him into some crazy person when he’s just going through a lot of pressure, anxiety anger and fear all at once he needs a big hug man