Blaming the victim unfortunately is so common in real life and fiction apparently, but some people cannot accept that their favorite 'hot and cute' top is a rapist so trying to excuse it as much as they can, what truly is disgusting!
Suha was portrayed as a rapist since the beginning, but people couldn't accept it and blamed Juhyeok, the victim! And honestly, that just proves that majority of readers are not the target and should not consume such series, they are mature enough to grasp and identify a difference between rape and consensual act! Because we can read and consume whatever we want in fiction, but only when we are mature enough to understand the difference without a sick need to justify such evil acts! Rape is rape, end of story!
The way they are both selfish and objectified each other just in different form. Su-ah does more harm to Juhyeok and yet no one wants to fully acknowledge that without pushing it back and frame Juhyeok being the only one treating su-ah like an object. The fucking sympathy because You're a top and pretty is too clear.