So garam should basically ignore all his truama and just go with the flow like the ml, right?
The thing is; thats obviously not easy especially for someone as traumatized as garam
And you need to remember its not jae's coming out only, if he comes out he puts both himself and garam in danger. Especially since hes relatively famous rn
But i do agree that garam needs to get his shit together and work on himself and his traumas before entering a relationship
And i think the reason his solution was to flight is bcuz garam is obviously a solid case of an avoidant attachment style lmao
No I never said that at all ?? I think Garam shouldn’t date anyone period until he works on himself . You shouldn’t go with the flow of anything if you feel uncomfortable.
That being said he also can’t stop the ML from coming out . No he shouldn’t go around saying they’re dating but he shouldn’t be actively forcing the ml to keep his sexuality a secret either. I feel like in past chapters even when the ml was only outing himself it pissed Garam off .
Instead of running away he should be trying to talk it out and get help for his own problems but we know authors won’t ever do shit like that lol
Lmao yeah thats true i highly doubt the author split them up for any reason other than drama
But i get why garam is trynna stop his bf from coming out
Hes already relatively famous and if he comes out and word gets out that he is living alone with a male roommate ppl would fixate on garam to find out what the hell is going on (it would look suspicious)
What im trying to say they both suck ass cuz this type of decision needs to be talked abt thoroughly not just decided on the spot
And jae needs to realize the repercussions of his actions and how he could be putting both himself and his bf in a dangerous situation yk
But Lowkey im yapping too much cuz i feel the author didn't even think that far ahead and just wanted to write garam as a lil bitchboy for a lil misunderstanding bit lmao
The way i completely agree with that last paragraph it’s like she made Jae get a redemption arc and became a love bomber and Garam is like “ Ew don’t touch me “ and i definitely agree he doesn’t think about consequences sure people wouldn’t give a damn about it ( people with brains at least) but it would definitely be trauma inducing all around shit show
My problem with Garam is how are you going to try to dictate someone else coming out because of your trauma. Honestly I feel like if you have this much trauma you don’t need to date until you get therapy and work out your trauma individually .
And I’m not saying Ml is perfect but damn there’s nothing he can do to satisfy garam . Any acts of service REJECTED. Any affection that’s not bedroom related REJECTED. Time to be adults and have a conversation and properly work out our relationship issues COMPLETE REJECTION, MOVE OUT???
The relationship has become inherently toxic. Garam has his own problems he needs to go through on his own but this just isn’t the way to go about it . It’s a repetition Fight, no communication, Jaehyuk apologizes ( even when he’s not wrong ) and then they fuck.