I have AUHD. So I understand both sides. Sangwoo is trying in his best in his own way and trying to adapt. But from the story it did seem Sangwoo mostly Nit picked on his flaws from the very beginning and I think its normal for Jaeyoung to not help but feel unloved. If you're always criticized and corrected I think this is a valid crash out. Because his feelings actually matter too. And this has nothing to do with the habits its in general. And if Jaeyoung does have ADHD which seems like a possibility he is also doing a lot of sacrifice for Sangwoo's sake so it can feel even more one-sided and not a lot of people talk about that.Also Sangwoo has not put much effort into making him happy either in the relationship aspect its always Jaeyoung who tries to do things like that.
Honestly both are kinda incompatible in my eyes. Having these things not align especially for neurodivergent people can be very difficult. Jaeyoung will likely feel resentment but Sangwoo won't fully understand and it will stress him out even more once he finally realizes but being fiction they will magically resolve their problems.
I have AUHD. So I understand both sides. Sangwoo is trying in his best in his own way and trying to adapt. But from the story it did seem Sangwoo mostly Nit picked on his flaws from the very beginning and I think its normal for Jaeyoung to not help but feel unloved. If you're always criticized and corrected I think this is a valid crash out. Because his feelings actually matter too. And this has nothing to do with the habits its in general. And if Jaeyoung does have ADHD which seems like a possibility he is also doing a lot of sacrifice for Sangwoo's sake so it can feel even more one-sided and not a lot of people talk about that.Also Sangwoo has not put much effort into making him happy either in the relationship aspect its always Jaeyoung who tries to do things like that.
Honestly both are kinda incompatible in my eyes. Having these things not align especially for neurodivergent people can be very difficult.
Jaeyoung will likely feel resentment but Sangwoo won't fully understand and it will stress him out even more once he finally realizes but being fiction they will magically resolve their problems.